Posts Tagged ‘ Attraction ’

 
Wednesday, January 11th, 2012

You may think that based your looks, age, bank account, and social status that there’s a caliber of females you can - or cannot - attract.

If you think this, you’re dead wrong. Don’t feel bad. Most men think this way as well - and that’s the problem.

The number one factor that determines which girls you attract and which ones you don’t is your belief system.

You could have Brad Pitt’s mug. But if you’re lacking in confidence, you will never attract the women of your dreams.

On the other hand, if you’re uglier than Joe Pesci but your confidence is through the roof, you’ll get any woman you want.

So how do you become confident? Easier said than done, right?

Well, not so fast. Developing confidence can be easy if you know how to do so.

One of the best ways to develop your confidence is to rehearse affirmations.

Affirmations are statements you presume to be true about yourself. When you rehearse an affirmation, it conditions your subconscious mind to find evidence of it in the world.

So, if you kept rehearsing the affirmation “I’m a loser,” your subconscious mind would spend its time trying to find examples in your daily life of you being loser.

Obviously, this is not the kind of affirmation we are after.

Instead, we want to focus on positive affirmations. Here are three of them that will help build up your confidence with women.

1) Women find me charming, attractive, and irresistible to be around.

2) Women want to talk to me.

3) I deserve any woman I want because I’m a high value male.

Practice these aloud before you go to bed a when you wake up in the morning. These affirmations will train your subconscious to look for examples of women seeing you as charming, attractive, and irresistible to be around. Before you know it, you’ll have more confidence than you know what to do with.

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.

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Do you know what most men do when they first meet a woman?

They bombard her with lots of questions, such as, “What’s your name?” “What do you do for work?” and “Do you come here often?”

This seems perfectly innocent. It’s an easy way to keep the conversation going. Moreover, women love to talk about themselves.

But when men do this, women act bored and often abruptly end the conversation.

What’s going on?

There’s nothing wrong with questions per se.

But here’s the problem with asking lots of them…

Every time you ask a question, it requires effort from a woman. Unconsciously, she is asking herself: Does this guy have enough value that it’s worth me answering this question?

To add insult to injury, if she’s at a bar and drinking, the last thing she wants to do is answer questions - it makes her feel like she’s on a job interview.

So what should you do instead?

Ask questions but ask them sparingly. Moreover, don’t ask questions just to keep the conversation going. Instead, ask questions that spur interesting conversations.

A question like “Do you come here often?” is a bad question because it reaps a yes or no answer.

However, a question like, “If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?” is a great question. It gets her talking. If you have traveled a lot, you can share stories about the places you’ve been.

Let’s sum everything up: ask questions to probe for conversation topics that are relevant to her. Once you have found a conversation topic that interests her, feel free to talk about yourself. She will listen because it is something that interests her. Also, this will encourage her to share things about herself. Before you know it, you guys will be chatting up a storm like old friends.

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.

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Women test men all the time, both consciously and unconsciously. If you aren’t aware of these tests, you will fail. As a result, women will lose attraction and respect for you.

Since this is a short article, I cannot lay out every test women throw at men. But I can share a few.

Test # 1: Fishing For Compliments

Have you ever had a woman ask you if she looked fat? Most men have. Do you know how most men respond?

“No, you don’t look fat. You look great.”

Why do men do this?

There are several reasons.

One is that they don’t want to offend the girl. They want her to think they are a nice guy.

Two is that they are trying to win points with the girl. In other words, they want the girl to like them.

While this may quell a woman’s low self-esteem for the moment, it ultimately kills all attraction. When you attempt to win a woman over it turns you into a courtier or sycophant. Women feel no attraction for sycophants.

Here’s the way to pass this test: Respond with, “Yeah, you look huge. If you get any bigger, I’m gonna have to get a forklift to move you around.”

This may seem mean. But it communicates that you are unwilling to give into her “pity party.” As a result, women will respect you and you won’t lose any attraction with them.

The exception to this is if the girl truly is overweight.

Test # 2: Buy Me A Drink

Many a man has been at a bar, spotted an attractive woman, approached her, and within a few minutes of conversation, she said, “Get me a drink.”

What do most men do?

They buy the girl a drink and she says, “Thank you… but now I’m gonna go talk to my friends.”

What is going here?

When you buy a female stranger a drink, it communicates that you don’t have enough value to talk to her without buying her a drink. Although it is a nice gesture, it diminishes your value in her eyes. Do not do it.

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.

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Wednesday, January 11th, 2012

In our culture, we are brainwashed to think women like nice guys. Your parents probably taught you to always compliment women, always pay for their meals, and always listen to a girl yap on and on. Society teach us to respond to a woman’s carping with, “Yes, dear.”

I’m about to barf.

This may work if you happen to be a woman’s type. But if you’re not, a woman will inevitably put you in “friend zone.”

Even if this does work at first, overtime a woman’s attraction towards will abate.

That’s because when a man cedes a woman’s every whim, she doesn’t think he’s nice and wonderful. Instead, she perceives him as a groveling gimp.

Does this mean chivalry is dead? Does it mean you should never open doors for women? No. Not at all.

You should do these things - especially if it’s your style. But add some cockiness to it.

Here’s an example. Let’s say a woman asks you to get her an apple martini. Don’t get her an apple martini. Instead, maybe get her a vodka tonic. Another cocky thing to do is this: make her tell you a joke or a story before getting her a drink.

Here’s your homework: look back over the last year and think of all the situations you’ve been in where you were acting like a “nice guy.” I’m willing to bet, nine out of ten times it killed attraction, right?

So as you think about each of these times, write down something cocky you could have done instead of acting like a “nice guy.”

The next time you’re in these situations, you won’t fall into “nice guy” mode. Instead, you’ll have a cocky response. As a result, women will be brimming with attraction for you.

The other thing you should do is pay attention to cocky guys. These guys may seem mean but I’m willing to bet they get a lot of girls. You can learn a lot from them.

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.

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When women first meet you, they are sizing you up. If you don’t live up to their “ideal man,” they’ll nix you immediately - or will they?

Most men get nixed by women within the first few minutes of interacting with them.

Here’s why…

Women will ask you questions, such as, “What do you for work?” What do you do for fun?” “What kind of music do you like?” and “Where did you go to school?”

Most men answer these questions with direct answers. This, not surprisingly, allows the woman to categorize you.

Don’t do this. Instead answer her questions with indirect answers. Giving a woman an indirect answer prevents her from categorizing you and stirs her to chase you.

Let’s look at some examples.

If a woman asks you, “What do you do for a living?” maybe respond with, “I’m an architect. I build igloos for Santa’s elves.”

Obviously, this is not a truthful answer. Will women think you’re a liar? Nope. Women are smart and know you’re being a little cocky and snarky. Instead, it will compel them to want to know what you do for a living even more. In other words, they’ll be chasing you.

Let’s look at another example. If a woman asks you, “Where did you go to college?” you could say, “I went to clown school on Mars. I had a nervous breakdown because Martians are much better clowns than humans.”

Let’s look at one more example. If a woman asks you, “Where do you live?” you could say, “In a cardboard box on Skid Row. Back when I was poor, I used to live in a single cardboard box. But now that I’m rolling in money, I’m living in a home made out of three cardboard boxes. Life is good.”

Have fun and come up with your own indirect answers to a woman’s questions.

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Most men make one of two mistakes with women and it squelches all attraction.

Mistake # 1: Showing Too Much Interest

When the collective “nice guy” likes a woman, he incessantly ogles at her, pays her compliments, and fondles her.

As a result, she thinks he’s needy and loses interest.

Mistake # 2: Constantly Pushing Women Away

This is the bane of the consummate bad boy. Around women, he oozes languor. Instead of complimenting them, he makes fun of them. The physical affection he gives them teeters on zero.

A Middle-ground: Two Steps Forward & One Step Back

The master Lothario always takes two steps forward and one step back.

Let’s break this down by starting with compliments and insults. A Lothario would start off with a small compliment - maybe about her clothes. Then he’d make a more brazen compliment about her physical beauty. He might say, “You’re lips are very full and sexy.” Then he’d take a step back by maybe adding, “But you wear too much makeup.”

To sum this up, the first two compliments are steps forward. The slight insult is a step backwards.

Now let’s analyze how the Lothario applies the principle “two steps forward and one step back” to the amount of attention he gives women. If a woman says something interesting, he might say, “That’s really interesting.” Then he may even start asking her questions about it. Next, to throw her for a loop, he might look disinterested and ho-hum.

Now the part you’ve been waiting for: How to apply the principle “two steps forward and one step back” to getting physical with women.

A master seducer starts by placing his hand on her arm. Then he rubs it a little. Next, before she can move his hand away, he removes it.

Then he may start rubbing his hand through her hair. After a good minute, he may grab a nice chunk of hair at the base of her scalp and gently pull (women find this very arousing). Then he will remove his hand.

Next, he’ll resume rubbing her hair. Then he’ll look into her eyes and softly brush his lips against hers. When she tries to kiss him, he’ll pull back.

This turns women on - big time. Try it yourself and see how well this works.

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It is a scary world out there: many women yap on about wanting a guy built like Achilles with Matthew McConaughey’s face.

But there is something that trumps a great body, a beautiful face, social status, and money: Being a master Storyteller. Every ladies man I’ve ever met was a great storyteller.

If you aren’t a great storyteller, you’re missing out - big time.

Becoming a great storyteller may seem like a daunting task but it is actually easy. In fact, you already are a great storyteller yet don’t know it. Do you have stories you share with close friends, family, and women you know well? I bet you do.

Here’s what I want you to do: think about all the stories and experiences you share with friends and family. Write them out and make them a little more succinct.

Then share them with women when first meeting them. You’ll be shocked at how well they work.

Here’s a question you might be thinking: How do I transition into my stories during a conversation with a woman?

Here’s what to do: figure out the premise of your story. Then turn the premise into a juicy headline. Let’s pretend you had a one-legged uncle who won a marathon. The premise is this: people can still be successful athletes despite having serious setbacks.

Let’s come up with a juicy headline. How about: “People are always complaining about how hard it is to accomplish things. That’s a bunch of hogwash. I know cripples who outperform perfectly normal and healthy people. It’s all about sheer determination.” This is going to pique her interest. Now you can go into your story.

For each of your stories, try to come with a headline. Then go out and use them within the first few seconds of meeting a girl. I think you will be pleasantly surprised with the results.

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.

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If you are looking for the best kind of dental implant, then you should consider these information: implants come in different sizes and shapes. Mini dental implants, from the word itself are smaller than the regular or traditional one.

If you cannot wait to have that perfectly looking prosthesis, then mini implant would just be for you. It will not cost you much time to be under the traditional set by step process.

You might have felt the disadvantages of dentures: it makes you speak harder, leads to irritation and oral sore, may cause you to chew foods hardly and may even lead to mouth infection. Dentures may even snap in and out of the mouth. But thanks to dental implants, having the full benefit of false teeth makes you feel it as natural teeth. It provides an easy way to secure the false teeth in place

Adaptation to changes with false teeth would be not an easy thing especially when the prosthesis looses its durability. Patients using them must be tolerant with frequent dental consultations and re-linings and the degree of maintenance and care. Doe someone needs to adapt to this kind of lifestyle?

A dental implant is composed of titanium material drilled in the jaw bone, in an area where there is no tooth. Once the dentist determines the good site in the jaw and makes a hole in the bone, the titanium screw is inserted. Once in place, the gum tissues around the material will be secured and be allowed to heal by placing the cover screw. You should wait for about 6 months for the healing and for the implant to anchor to the jaw bone, this is called osseointegration. After such certain amount of time, the dentist or surgeon will remove the cover of the implant and replace with the abutment. The abutment will serve as a connector that holds the implant and tooth- like substitute.

There is quite a different approach in application of mini implant. The abutment may not be done. Attachment of the resembled tooth is instantly completed with lesser time being on the dental chair. A small pilot bit is used to create an opening rather than a full flap of gum which is done on the regular implant. When it comes to cost, mini implants pays lower but prices may vary with the kind of material you would want to use.

Mini implants are best in securing the upper or lower dentures, a temporary or permanent one.

One may choose for the removable prosthesis fastened by the implant. Dental hygiene would be maintained and done easily. Always consult your dental health provider regarding your decisions.

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While studying dental implants it is important to know of the variety and differences between the various kinds of dental implants. Basically, there are two. Mini and traditional. Let us take a look at these in detail.

Look for a mini, if you are in need of an implant that will not keep you tied to your bed. These set fast. It also provides a lot of variety in the manner of materials.

If you are wondering, how these two implants have been instrumental in achieving astounding success, it is because of their implicit simplicity. Great things are achieved by the simplest acts. Similarly, the mini is a great champion.

To be comfortable, one must do everything possible to find the correct fitting dentures. It is the magic, every patient anticipates from his doctor. The patient does not want to keep visiting the doctor time after time, in search of his correct fit.

Osseointegration is the process by which an implant is left to fuse to bone over a period of time. The implant may be made of titanium normally. Applying the abutment is consequently done. After this, the implant is exposed and applied to the bride. The time taken for this could be anything up to six months.

One is required to consult the doctor with regards to advice in this matter.

One is mostly taken up by not only the speed but also the way in which a mini implant may serve to rectify any portion of the dentures of the patient.

The removable portion of the dentures must be regularly removed and cleaned properly. Always consult your doctor before doing anything on your own.

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If you have difficulties with your teeth such as injuries, applying a dental crown will be helpful in fixing your teeth as well as holding up your mental bridges. As a crown, its importance in renewing your dental implant is fundamental.

Just like a natural tooth so is a dental crown designed. Dental crowns feature in both ceramic and metallic forms. For this crown to be effective, a dentist has to clearly understand the conditions to be resolved and then recommend to you the best type to be applied.

Dental crowns appear in two types i.e. ceramic and metallic. People don’t always use them because they are not attractive to look at. The user may feel uncomfortable while using it because it is easily noticeable. But on the other side, these crowns are trusted for fulfilling their purpose and their strength to last for a long period of time is trusted.

Formed like a real tooth, ceramics are more pleasant than metallic crowns. The like features with that of a real tooth makes ceramic crowns preferable than the metallic ones. They are outstanding and they have a natural luster just like the natural tooth.

There are two ways to follow while acquiring a crown. First of all, the dentist will have to eliminate the tinny layers of enamel from the natural teeth in providing space for the crown. The place around the tooth is worked on in the same manner.

After the clean up, an impression is made and the crown is manufactured from the dental laboratory. Mean while impermanent crowns are applied for a time not exceeding two weeks. After availing the permanent crown, it is then placed to substitute the impermanent ones.

Dental crowns are recommendable for the fact that they can be long lasting. Once good oral sanitation is maintained, a crown can be used for 10 to 15 years before it can be replaced for a new one. Other facts that can lead to crown removal include; depreciation or decay resulting from poor methods of placing it.

There is no standard cost for a dental crown. Dentists have unlike prices. The material in which the crown was made also another price determining factor. It is more costly to acquire a ceramic crown than a metallic one. While charging, the dental surgeon will also include the charges for other services including screening among others which will make the cost a bit higher.

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