Here is why the way you spend and manage money is a cardinal reflection of your present reality and your values.
How well can you keep the promises that you make to your fellow man?
Whenever you borrow money, this constitutes a promise to pay the other individual or financial institution back at a given time, as witnessed by the Lord. Is it more important to keep your promises to your friends and family who probably won’t legally make you pay the money back or is it more important to pay the financial institution that can ruin your credit score and will more likely use legal options. Our reality dictates that it may be more important to pay financial institutions first, but in any case, breaking one’s promise is not something that is to be emulated.
How much money do you give back to others?
The amount of money that you give to the less fortunate and the amount of time you spend helping these individuals are two things analogous with each other, and two things you must strive for as one of God’s children. Which means that you would need consider the rubric that those who give less are most likely more self-centered by nature. If this is the case, this is not to be misconstrued as you being an undesirable person, but you may have to engage in some soul-searching to discover who you really are.
Would you rather spend or save your money?
Finding the crucial balance between spending and saving may be something you will need to practice and eventually achieve. People who never have two nickels to rub together are living in the moment with no sense of what the future will bring. It is this desperation that forces them to live dangerously, especially when it comes to making financial decisions when they do have some spare change to spend. Many adults with ADD are prone to these impulsive decisions and need to pay special attention before making any big decision. However, it would not behoove you to do the exact opposite and save every penny of your paycheck that you could, because there has to be some sort of enjoyment gained through material pleasures in your reality, albeit none too much.
Do not misconstrue this as a financial article, because this is not - we are not financial gurus, but rather we are self-help experts who strongly believe that the process of managing your money says more about yourself than you may have imagined. How you spend your money is physical proof of your values. But with a positive attitude, prayer and a desire to change, you can alter your habits in such a way that your values will reflect in a positive way.